What Is A Big Cock Bully?
The appeal of a big cock bully can be enormous: he’s the pinnacle of the bad boys. This is especially true if you find yourself in a relationship that might consensually play into the bull and cuckold dynamic. Cuckold couples – discussed in more detail below – might have the safest and easiest experience when it comes to fully immersing themselves into an experience with a big cock bully. Both men and women in the couple can ease into their own form of enjoyment and indulgence of their kinks and fetishes.
Single people might find a different experience when finding themselves attracted to a bad boy or a bully. We are not here to comment on the character or morality of someone you have deemed a bully or one of the bad boys, but we do offer some minor caution. Becoming entangled in a relationship with someone that you know could be bad for you or that important people in your life legitimately are telling you to stay away from can be problematic.

Attraction to Bad Boys and Bullies
A big cock bully is one of the bad boys. Who doesn’t like a bad boy, right? For a myriad of reasons men and women find themselves drawn to what many deem the wrong kind of guys. There are reasons for this that span biology to culture and we walk those webs throughout this article. At Bullwether we believe that understanding your emotions and dirty desires is better than pretending that they do not exist.
Being honest about whatever gets you off leads to the happiest sexual life you can have. Of course, the real world matters, too. This is where we find the most interesting of intersections. One that big cock bullies are perfectly posed to help us understand. We know that it is wrong to bully someone. Now imagine that your own husband is being bullied by an enormous man that he needs to play it cool with because he is a gentleman, like you like.
The bully might be a bad person, but the traits that make bullies or bad boys appealing is amplified in this moment. His domination is being asserted, it is clear that you man is backing down to this assertion (for good or bad reasons), and he is constantly providing comical examples of why your man is less than. Standing by your man is one thing, doing the right thing, too. But when you’re deep into using your vibrator, close to becoming a goonette, his big masculine presence may slide into your head. It is easy to take that last step into biological attraction and want him to put, what by all cultural and biological signals, seems to be a big fertile load inside of you.
Safely Playing With Bad Boys & Bullies
Understanding your emotions as you approach this kind of play can help you make better long term decisions. For single people especially, if you are able to consider that this – deep and real as it is – can be biologically and emotionally very temporary. Whatever decision you make, grasping these ideas as you do it will hopefully allow you to make a safer and more sexually fulfilling decision.
At Bullwether, we do not draw our lines of “legitimate feelings” on the premise that many do: momentary versus long term. As we go further into our discussion of why both men and women are attracted to the big cock bully you will see that we feel both forms of arousal are real and valid. Having a complete sexual experience throughout life means being honest about deep and surface drivers – biological, emotional, and otherwise. How far you go in acting on these things is up to you.

Big Cock Bully For Men
Men that are interested in a big cock bully might have a variety of driving factors or kinks driving it. Gay men might be the first to come to mind, but we cannot forget those in cuckold couple relationships. Or even straight men who are attracted to big dick for a variety of reasons. You can read more about that in the article Why Straight Men Are Attracted to Penis?
Cuckolds receive pleasure form watching their women be fucked by big powerful men for a myriad of reasons. And yet others are simply attracted to the power itself. Perhaps wishing it was them. Fetishizing the power over women (or men0 that these classic alpha males have . Men, it would seem, by putting so much stock in their penis size easily travel from bad boy to big cock bully.
Big Cock Bully For Women
When thinking about the reasons that women might be attracted to a bully, and especially a big cock bully, many shift towards negative qualities. Women that find themselves attracted to men whom their friends and society might frown upon can be a difficult thing to process and deal with. Being hard on themselves, reiterating stereotypes like “why do I always go for the bad boys,” can become a normal ritual.
These stereotypes are interesting because the drive is something innately biological a woman feels. Can that be inherently wrong? When pairing it with our modern definition of what makes a good mate, adjustment may be waranted. Not only through the scope of society’s opinion, but also from the reality of what is helpful now. As far as protection provided to a female and her child, how much does brute strength matter today as compared to financial stability?
This is where kinks and fetishes get interesting. It is also one of the instances that fully entangles with our motto: Pioneering Passion. Yes, it is likely true that for a modern long term male mate, physical size matters less than bank account size for feeling secure. However, does that also mean that we should ignore that drive within us? One of the most common factors across fetishes and kinks is their perception as acts that are “not allowed’ or “off limits.”
So, when a bad boy with a big fat cock sparks that inner lizard brain and the idea of “off limits” is mixed in, the whole thing can make for a very arousing experience. If its safe and consensual for everyone involved, why not let your biology give you the best orgasm you can have in that moment?

Why Are Girls Attracted to Bad Boys?
From both sexes, we constantly hear that women are attracted to bad boys (or bullies). These two titles can be tied together by their similar characteristics. This helps to more clearly define the concept and help it feel less out of the norm. So let’s answer the question directly. Girls are attracted to bad boys for their confidence, presence, physical power, adaptability, and perceived capacity to provide protection; increase in these drivers during ovulation ties the biological imperative to procreate with the stereotypical traits of a “bad boy.”
It then seems to be an obvious extension, when the biological imperative and ovulation are involved, that thoughts about the penis would find their way in. That is why the distance between being attracted to a bully and a big cock bully is seemingly not so far. Women report having a desire for a larger penis for one night stands than they do for long term relationships. This would indicate that in some moments – when future planning and culture may have less influence and untethered pleasure reigns – we enjoy things that we otherwise want to categorize as “not mattering.”
Maybe if we phrase it as: “Penis size doesn’t matter for my long term love, but when I have that innate urge to be overpowered by an enormous, behemoth of a man who, by all accounts, seems to have big, heavy, potent loads of cum he can confidently and deeply deposit inside of me while the guy that pays the mortgage watches – size does matter.”
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